Christine Confidence, self esteem, motivation - none of these are permanent states. But in the same way we have to do things daily to maintain our physical health - eat, drink, sleep, wash, etc - you may need to do things regularly to improve your self esteem. This probably centers on thinking habits, as we can easily get into negative habits as we grow up. So do persevere. David
Jenna - I agree, although appreciate for some its easier said than done. Robert - I hadn't thought of any link to the LoA! Although I'm not the total skeptic that I once was, and use techniques like affirmations that LoA followers also use, the LoA does not give me a framework for personal development.
I had read a lot of moivation book like this..and im always charge up after reading these..but still..after a few days i'll like back to the same position.,.. what should i do to mantain my self esteem?
Thanks, Christine
Alex Kay
· 1 year ago
Wonderful post, David.
Not seeking approval (to approve yourself) is so important in life.
"...remind yourself that most people are quite self centered. In the same way you spend most of your time full of self talk, worrying about you, other people are not as concerned about you as you think."
Sage advice. I'll try and remember that whenever I can.
Larry
glenn age 53
· 3 months ago
Approval seeking can be overcome if you desire to be free of it, as a medical office Administrator and a consistant student of Mental Health, I have come to understand this distuctive behavior, specially in itimate relationships such as marriage, a degree of approval is healthly but when it becomes unhealthly is when its all the time on a consistant seeking cycle, building your self-esteem, self-worth and self-respect from others will never gain or substance a person for a suficient time but these emotions are very needed and you should find those healthy ways (maybe a mentalhealth professional) that are comfortable for you to gain grounds in those areas, soon you well begin to feel the change and the true value you do have without having to rely on others for your worth and value.
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Confidence, self esteem, motivation - none of these are permanent states. But in the same way we have to do things daily to maintain our physical health - eat, drink, sleep, wash, etc - you may need to do things regularly to improve your self esteem. This probably centers on thinking habits, as we can easily get into negative habits as we grow up.
So do persevere. David
David's last blog post..Stop Seeking the Approval of Others
I stopped worrying about what other people think of me a while ago.. I have to be the best I can be, regardless of what anyone else thinks or does.
If you can't love and accept yourself, you're going to have a tough road ahead!
Jenna's last blog post..May I Have Your Attention, Please?
Is this the answer to my question about law of attraction?
To approve yourself?
Thanks,
Robert
Robert A. Henru's last blog post..The three secrets to limitless possibilities
Robert - I hadn't thought of any link to the LoA! Although I'm not the total skeptic that I once was, and use techniques like affirmations that LoA followers also use, the LoA does not give me a framework for personal development.
David's last blog post..Stop Seeking the Approval of Others
what should i do to mantain my self esteem?
Thanks,
Christine
Not seeking approval (to approve yourself) is so important in life.
Have a GREAT day :)
Alex Kay's last blog post..Why Gifts and Flowers don’t work for Creating Attraction - Only for Amplifying it
Another interesting article. I like the idea of the Portfolio where you put your accomplishments and things your feel you did a good job on.
As some one who had problems with self esteem, approval seeking is one of the hardest things to overcome and to understand.
I got there with my journal, and a lot of reading: articles like this, books, and one very good coaching program.
You do an awesome job, keep up the good work.
Walk in quiet places.
Nick
Nick Grimshawe's last blog post..There is a Door Inside of Me
Sage advice. I'll try and remember that whenever I can.
Larry