I think we are born with self trust which we unlearn quickly!
Adults hovering over us - worrying about us - trying to keep us safe.
Adults telling us we are too young to make that decision and we should follow their advice...
Etc....Etc....
Obviously their intervention in our lives is their expression of love through their own lack of self trust vision....
So -- we need to go back to core of our being - self trust lives at our core - it didn't go away - it is still communicating with us... We just need to reach in.......
Thanks - and thank you for your support with comments on previous posts. David
Alex Kay
· 1 year ago
I can't wait for the next 100 David!
On a side-note about friendly people on the internet; I just read about a man who had been robbed for almost everything he owned. He wasn't wealthy at all, just had enough to live. But when he suddenly got robbed, he didn't have anything. He wrote about it on the PostSecret forum, and after a few days, a really friendly member sent him all the money he had lost + more to live even better.
I think that shows the power of the internet really well.
Alex - I must have posted on your site around the same time you came over here. The Internet - particularly blogging -can flatten out different ages, cultures, gender, background. Thanks, best wishes
David
Guy Cohen
· 1 year ago
Great job, you have reached 100 posts! It's important that we have to build a better confidence, we need to believe in our self! Trust in ourselves is very important.
Great article David. You are right that the more confident we are, the more we can cope with uncertainty around us. Kristin www.self-confidence-matters.com
david
· 2 days ago
Hi, this is very good post. Prepration is a very good way to build confidence. Get prepair for any situtation is more important for self confidence. I realy like this post.
cygon
· 1 day ago
I would be interested in how you balance self-confidence with the ability to change.
I greatly admire people who are able to change their opinion in a discussion (eg. not enter full lockdown defense mode as soon as someone challenges their opinion), so I try my best to be such a person.
However, if one enters a discussion on the point of view that he may be wrong about something, he likely will not sound all that confident, appearing to hold the weaker hand in a discussion and possibly even creating an image of someone who can be bullied around.
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Adults hovering over us - worrying about us - trying to keep us safe.
Adults telling us we are too young to make that decision and we should follow their advice...
Etc....Etc....
Obviously their intervention in our lives is their expression of love through their own lack of self trust vision....
So -- we need to go back to core of our being - self trust lives at our core - it didn't go away - it is still communicating with us... We just need to reach in.......
Congratulations on your 100th post!! ;)
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On a side-note about friendly people on the internet; I just read about a man who had been robbed for almost everything he owned. He wasn't wealthy at all, just had enough to live. But when he suddenly got robbed, he didn't have anything. He wrote about it on the PostSecret forum, and after a few days, a really friendly member sent him all the money he had lost + more to live even better.
I think that shows the power of the internet really well.
I really enjoy your writing style,
keep it up :)
Alex
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www.self-confidence-matters.com
I greatly admire people who are able to change their opinion in a discussion (eg. not enter full lockdown defense mode as soon as someone challenges their opinion), so I try my best to be such a person.
However, if one enters a discussion on the point of view that he may be wrong about something, he likely will not sound all that confident, appearing to hold the weaker hand in a discussion and possibly even creating an image of someone who can be bullied around.